Rochblue

UPDATE: Due to the massive amount of endless inquiries, as well as the overwhelming level of nonsense, ignorance, rudeness and games I deal with around here, I have decided to take a break from interacting with ALL people on here, with the very rare exceptions. This is temporary for now, but it may be a permanent decision, depending on how I feel about things in the upcoming future. I will do my best to still keep in touch with the handful of loyal friends that I have on here (you all know who you are). Please disregard anything described below, in terms of my offer to chat with people until/if I'm ever back in the game for that again. People on here have repeatedly proven to me that they cannot behave like mature adults, therefore, I'm just another one of the last remaining REAL women on these sites that you men have all chosen to disrespect and push away. Congrats! Need proof? Sure! Just read the wall comments, the blog posts, the 'avoid member list' or contact me directly for the proof via emails, screen shots, etc... .

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Old profile info begins here and is to be currently disregarded (unless you truly feel that you fall under that "very rare exception" category)...

First and foremost, my profile is always kept current, accurate, honest and updated. What I describe here is what I mean and I am hard-set on everything I say. No exceptions, no negotiating or compromise. I say this because I have been getting an influx of people asking to meet me or to cyber with, thinking that I'm willing to change/be flexible of my circumstances or being told that women don't always mean what they say on their profiles or that their profiles are old/outdated. Not the case here. I'm on this site strictly for entertainment purposes. Nothing more. If anything were to ever change (and it won't, I'm happily married and happily satisfied at home), it would be revised, updated and reflected right here on my profile immediately.

Moving on...

As I said, I'm strictly here for entertainment purposes. Like any other people who come here, it means that I come to watch adult videos, pics, the occasional cam, chatting or dabbling into member posts, erotic stories and so on. I am NOT on this site looking for anything or for anyone at all for anything. Let that be known. I'm an avid writer and a pen pal. I'm offering (not seeking) pen pal to anyone interested in the same. Be sure you clearly understand that pen pal is NOT "casual texting"...big difference there! I am willing to hold balanced, non-sexual pen pal chat conversations that lead to long-term online friendships with anyone who is contacting me on here, so be sure you're contacting me specifically for that reason to pen pal for the sake of building a meaningful online friendship with. This means that you should have good communication, English, spelling, punctuation and grammar skills and know how to hold balanced conversations in terms of meaningful, fulfilling and structured paragraphs. Talking in "text" or "shorthand" form is a huge turn-off, as it relays laziness, lack of effort or dedicated time and usually unintelligence. Please speak to me in proper English. A good rule of thumb is the expectation for you to compose and trade one or two lengthy messages per week from each party, so be willing and enthusiastic to write messages out and dedicate free time to do so. Communication, balance and acknowledgement are all key points in a two-way conversation, so I expect that in return. I expect proper correspondence as a courtesy measure during any such time when life gets in the way and you find yourself unable to hold conversational chats, until that time period passes (e.g.: medical issues, abundance of work, family issues, life events, etc...). Please don't contact me, based solely on my profile picture. Good so far? If not, please bypass me. If so, read on...

If you are from India, Egypt, Bangladesh, Nepal, Turkey, Palestine, Lebanon, Qatar, Serbia, Algeria, Jordan, Tunisia, Pakistan, UAE/Dubai, Morocco, Portugal, Malaysia and Kazakhstan, then I have no interest in talking to you, since the majority of my issues on here seem to primarily stem mainly from people who write to me from these listed countries.

I ONLY know and understand the English language, so if you choose to contact me, speak fluent English ONLY and please be a gentleman (or lady-like, if you're the rare female) and you'll have no problems here. Do you like to chat? Are you looking for good company online here to pass free time with general non-sexually balanced chat conversations via pen pal relationship? If so, get to know me. I'm a nice woman and expect to be treated nice. I do not care about your sexual stuff at all such as your perversions, fantasies, wants, wishes or if you are hard and horny. Go away! I'm NOT interested in sex chat, watching your cam on request, pic/video trading, link sharing, sharing my name, sharing my phone number, texting or talking off site. I'm not on this site for it's "Dating" section. I am taken (married to a man) and have no interests whatsoever to meet anyone from here in person (whether for in-person friendships, sex or otherwise). If you're contacting me in the message center, just have a reasonable level time to do so and show up around here frequently. Invest time, effort and enthusiasm into your compositions and chat to me like a decent and respectful human being...you won't regret it. I'm more than willing to establish meaningful online friendships with the right people, if you so choose to take that on. If you meet the criteria, introduce yourself with something more than a "Hi" or "Hello", as I will judge interactions like that upon you being a lazy, vague, boring or uninteresting person directly from the start who has no time, effort or fulfillment to invest with me. There's no second chance to make a good first impression, so make it count.

If your profile is set to "Visible to friends only"; or if your basic location is "Earth"; or if your gender is "Human"; I have no interest in you.

If you have a blank profile or if your profile contains little to no details about you or a description, then I know nothing at all about you up front, and therefore, I'm not interested in talking to people blindly without knowing some background stats or critical profile information that's not visible to me.

Also, I'm not a 'friend collector'. I don't just randomly add complete strangers to my 'Friends' list, because you aren't my friend. Friends are a privilege and it's something that's earned through ongoing and interesting conversations, having things in common, mutual bonding attraction, honesty, personality, trust, balance, cooperation, compliance, respect and any other key values which make friends, actual friends. If you actually want to make it to my 'Friends' list, then be prepared to earn that over the course of time. Otherwise, your request will simply be deleted.
If you are a 'friend collector', then I'm in no way interested in you. Realistically, this means that if you have more than 20 or so people on your list, I'll probably categorize you as a 'friend collector', as will I also take into account of your number of 'friends' in relation to your progression rate or amount of time as a member on site. In other words, if you're a newbie member of this site for a week and already have a dozen 'friends', you're a 'friend collector'; however, if you've been a member for 18 years and have reasonably over 20 'friends', then it's more understandable.

If your profile or vocabulary describes you in any way with the words "boy" or "girl", then I have no interest at all in you. That's just creepy! We're all grown adults here and should be referred to as being men and women. Also, do not address me as being a "girl" for the same reasons! If you are into "mommy" stuff or "step relative" stuff, it's also a big 'goodbye'! Again, creepy!

Do not contact me with inquiries that pertain to my 'Interests and fetishes' section, as these are merely personal interests of mine, which should not be thought of as if I'm seeking those things or that I'm willing to discuss or cyber about them. No! It's just to be thought of as "information" for "entertainment purposes" on the site. The very same goes for my profile pic! So don't contact me in reference to that stuff, as you are just wasting my time in needless purpose.

Follow through with what you have begun! If you decide to contact me, then we're game-on at that point and I expect the outlined terms to be followed. If, for whatever reason, you find yourself no longer interested in what's being offered here, then I expect communication to be followed through to the end with a proper and respectful level of closure and manners like a decent and mature human being.

Rudeness won't be tolerated! Blocking me won't be tolerated! Ignoring me won't be tolerated! Not acknowledging me won't be tolerated! PA behavior won't be tolerated! Grow up! If you do any of these things you will be on group watch. Testimony will be left publicly for anyone who disrespects me, makes irrelevant contact, needlessly wastes my time, 'friend requests' me and such. Fair notice!

The rules here are simple and self-explanatory. It's a 'comply or goodbye' policy. It's just that simple!

And to the rest of the peanut gallery: To those who don't understand that you're in no way obligated to drink alcohol if you go to a bar/club, but rather to socialize, play pool, watch live entertainment, mingle, play video games, and so on...you'll never quite understand your own idiocy. The analogy I make is to NOT attempt to mock me or belittle me because I'm on an adult site and CHOOSE to NOT talk sexually. Life has choices....yes, imagine that! Although I watch adult oriented things privately behind the scenes, does NOT automatically mean that I'm here to dirty talk/cyber or to be your verbal whore. We all have choices in life, comfort zones, reasons, restrictions, limitations and so on. Please respect that. I'm tired of the idiotic accusations, mockery and judgements from those who simply cannot understand this simple concept!