Just a few days ago I received an email. It was open and honest and the guy laid it all out for me. He had met a girl online and there seemed to be some great chemistry and it was getting to the point where a meeting was inevitable. The guy however wasn't sure of himself and his abilities to please this lady seeing that she was older than him and he hadn't had much experience with sex. He asked me for pointers. I gave him some basics but I told him something I hope stuck with him the most. I said, relax, go with the flow and listen to her body. I don't know if he understood or could actually d… Pročitajte više

You know how often I read that Germany is great for a black man, or it's a black man's dream or whatever, but then I think to myself....well actually I fucked 4 girls in 1 week in Texas, 5 in 1 week in Virginia, 8 DP's in a row in Africa......it makes me wonder, actually no, it's proof to me that it has nothing to do with my location. It's got everything to do with my inner perspective (where you find yourself) in my head. You see continuing on from where I left off, I find myself having to explain to people stop relying on chance for sex, start relying on yourself. You don't get successfu… Pročitajte više

BLUF (Bottom line up front): Respect women, be confident in yourself, think positive. You know I hear it a lot in conversation and I see it a lot on comments on my posts. Guys are always talking about sex like is a crap shoot, a game of chance and luck. Sex is not and has never been a game of luck or chance and the quicker a guy figures that out, the faster he will be more desirable to the opposite sex. Think about it, you are walking through a casino you stroll up to a craps table and you see 6 guys, and 3 women (in some form attached to separate men). Guy #1, he's excited to be there,… Pročitajte više