When you're a gay bottom boy like this, your penis doesnt get used since you submit to masculine dominant men that fuck you. As a bottom, you might try to find purpose for your manhood and crave to be further emasculated. It feels so good feel a strong alpha squeezing your penis letting you know that you are the beta
Loved the part from 4:13 to 4:31ish with stressing the importance of telling the truth and then (in my mind anyway) the reassurance of your weight on him for that full body hug.